How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 09:07

How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Ask yourself:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why do I feel bad when I see white girls dating black guys, am I racist?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Do not set goals—set systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I think that being gay is wrong, but I treat gay people respectfully like any other person. Is it homophobic? Or offensive in any kind of way? Aren’t disagreement and discrimination two different things?

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What I need from you?

What are the different types of networking?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

What should I do? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 23-year-old guy.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Procrastinates a lot.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.